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	<title>Comments on: Hitching up my skirts but trying not to run away</title>
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		<title>By: Emma</title>
		<link>http://www.enewman.co.uk/writing/hitching-up-my-skirts-but-trying-not-to-run-away/comment-page-1#comment-318</link>
		<dc:creator>Emma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2009 08:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Tony - Thank you, it&#039;s a strange pleasure to know I&#039;ve creeped some people out with my story writing rather than my raging geekiness for a change!

@Jane - Wow, that just blew me away! There was me thinking it was a special little madness all of my own - should have known better!

@ Jason - Only the British Library? Not the secret service too? I must work harder....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Tony &#8211; Thank you, it&#8217;s a strange pleasure to know I&#8217;ve creeped some people out with my story writing rather than my raging geekiness for a change!</p>
<p>@Jane &#8211; Wow, that just blew me away! There was me thinking it was a special little madness all of my own &#8211; should have known better!</p>
<p>@ Jason &#8211; Only the British Library? Not the secret service too? I must work harder&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Jason Weaver</title>
		<link>http://www.enewman.co.uk/writing/hitching-up-my-skirts-but-trying-not-to-run-away/comment-page-1#comment-312</link>
		<dc:creator>Jason Weaver</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 22:14:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m just convinced the British Library spies are reading your blog. Borstal, here we come!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m just convinced the British Library spies are reading your blog. Borstal, here we come!</p>
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		<title>By: Link Love Friday &#124; Me(me), Myself and I Edition</title>
		<link>http://www.enewman.co.uk/writing/hitching-up-my-skirts-but-trying-not-to-run-away/comment-page-1#comment-311</link>
		<dc:creator>Link Love Friday &#124; Me(me), Myself and I Edition</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 13:38:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Speaking of the Collective Inkwell duo, the winners of their competition were announced this week. Congratulations to Kool Aid, Paisley and of course to the overall winner Emma. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Speaking of the Collective Inkwell duo, the winners of their competition were announced this week. Congratulations to Kool Aid, Paisley and of course to the overall winner Emma. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Jane Wilson</title>
		<link>http://www.enewman.co.uk/writing/hitching-up-my-skirts-but-trying-not-to-run-away/comment-page-1#comment-310</link>
		<dc:creator>Jane Wilson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 13:22:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s called &#039;Imposter Syndrome&#039;, and is common among graduates and successful women: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imposter_syndrome

I haven&#039;t yet found a way of fixing it but, when I do I&#039;ll let you know :-)

Absolutely LOVE the story!

Jane (who can&#039;t believe she didn&#039;t get sacked from her last job as she was mostly just making it up...)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s called &#8216;Imposter Syndrome&#8217;, and is common among graduates and successful women: <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imposter_syndrome" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imposter_syndrome</a></p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t yet found a way of fixing it but, when I do I&#8217;ll let you know <img src='http://www.enewman.co.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Absolutely LOVE the story!</p>
<p>Jane (who can&#8217;t believe she didn&#8217;t get sacked from her last job as she was mostly just making it up&#8230;)</p>
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		<title>By: Tony</title>
		<link>http://www.enewman.co.uk/writing/hitching-up-my-skirts-but-trying-not-to-run-away/comment-page-1#comment-309</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 02:01:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I read your story when you tweeted about winning - fantastic work. VERY creepy and alarming. Congratulations!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tony&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://tonynoland.blogspot.com/2009/05/sunlight-on-plaza-below.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Sunlight on the Plaza Below&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read your story when you tweeted about winning &#8211; fantastic work. VERY creepy and alarming. Congratulations!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Tony&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://tonynoland.blogspot.com/2009/05/sunlight-on-plaza-below.html" rel="nofollow">Sunlight on the Plaza Below</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Emma</title>
		<link>http://www.enewman.co.uk/writing/hitching-up-my-skirts-but-trying-not-to-run-away/comment-page-1#comment-308</link>
		<dc:creator>Emma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 21:45:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Paisley - we were commenting here at the same time! Thanks for stopping by and your kind words. It was a great contest wasn&#039;t it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Paisley &#8211; we were commenting here at the same time! Thanks for stopping by and your kind words. It was a great contest wasn&#8217;t it?</p>
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		<title>By: Emma</title>
		<link>http://www.enewman.co.uk/writing/hitching-up-my-skirts-but-trying-not-to-run-away/comment-page-1#comment-307</link>
		<dc:creator>Emma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 21:36:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You all make me feel like a shiny new penny, you really do.

@ Dan, thank you. It means more than that to me monetarily as it&#039;s the design aspect too. It means a hell of a lot more really though - it&#039;s the first time any fiction I have written has resulted in a material reward.

@Jason - you realise that by calling me kitten and then telling me that you have lied to get a British library card is tantamount to asking me to run away with you, don&#039;t you? But seriously, I&#039;m chuffed you understand the fear. (Please, tell me one day you&#039;ll let me know what the two most exciting things were...)

@Graham - Will do, and thanks for being ready to drag me out.

@ Marc - My inner critic and multiple neuroses are excellent at convincing me that everyone else is wrong! But I like the point you make. I recall (hazily) another Spock quote: &quot;You may find that having is not so pleasing as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.&quot; I think it was quoted at the beginning of a book I read years ago. He might have been right...

@Elle - that is a fabulous quote, and oh so true. What if we are capable of being so much more - we won&#039;t be able to hide away any more! I hope it has given you something - I squirrel away all tales of writing success in my little mental hope chest. Perhaps I have inadvertently made a magic nut for someone else, what a lovely thought.

@Diana - Oh that desire is truly mutual. One day, when I have money, I will meet up with you and we will have tea and crumpets. We shall have such a fine conversation you and I. Then I will catch a plane to Australia, to drink cold beer with Graham and talk about the nature of man and religion. It&#039;s got to happen. xx

@Christy - oh that is definitely a reveal, thank you. Yes... a big fear that one - in fact it happened to me tonight - my Mum had printed out a short story competition for me to enter and talked about it like winning would be easy for me. &quot;I expect you to win it&quot; she said in a cheery way as her confidence was turned into fodder for my fear.

@Caroline - It&#039;s like you floated into my living room and popped and a thousand sparkles burst out! Yay! Thank you! Elderflower champagne - wow, that sounds nice, don&#039;t mind if I do...

@ Joanna - I will try. I&#039;m not promising anything though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You all make me feel like a shiny new penny, you really do.</p>
<p>@ Dan, thank you. It means more than that to me monetarily as it&#8217;s the design aspect too. It means a hell of a lot more really though &#8211; it&#8217;s the first time any fiction I have written has resulted in a material reward.</p>
<p>@Jason &#8211; you realise that by calling me kitten and then telling me that you have lied to get a British library card is tantamount to asking me to run away with you, don&#8217;t you? But seriously, I&#8217;m chuffed you understand the fear. (Please, tell me one day you&#8217;ll let me know what the two most exciting things were&#8230;)</p>
<p>@Graham &#8211; Will do, and thanks for being ready to drag me out.</p>
<p>@ Marc &#8211; My inner critic and multiple neuroses are excellent at convincing me that everyone else is wrong! But I like the point you make. I recall (hazily) another Spock quote: &#8220;You may find that having is not so pleasing as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.&#8221; I think it was quoted at the beginning of a book I read years ago. He might have been right&#8230;</p>
<p>@Elle &#8211; that is a fabulous quote, and oh so true. What if we are capable of being so much more &#8211; we won&#8217;t be able to hide away any more! I hope it has given you something &#8211; I squirrel away all tales of writing success in my little mental hope chest. Perhaps I have inadvertently made a magic nut for someone else, what a lovely thought.</p>
<p>@Diana &#8211; Oh that desire is truly mutual. One day, when I have money, I will meet up with you and we will have tea and crumpets. We shall have such a fine conversation you and I. Then I will catch a plane to Australia, to drink cold beer with Graham and talk about the nature of man and religion. It&#8217;s got to happen. xx</p>
<p>@Christy &#8211; oh that is definitely a reveal, thank you. Yes&#8230; a big fear that one &#8211; in fact it happened to me tonight &#8211; my Mum had printed out a short story competition for me to enter and talked about it like winning would be easy for me. &#8220;I expect you to win it&#8221; she said in a cheery way as her confidence was turned into fodder for my fear.</p>
<p>@Caroline &#8211; It&#8217;s like you floated into my living room and popped and a thousand sparkles burst out! Yay! Thank you! Elderflower champagne &#8211; wow, that sounds nice, don&#8217;t mind if I do&#8230;</p>
<p>@ Joanna &#8211; I will try. I&#8217;m not promising anything though.</p>
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		<title>By: Paisley</title>
		<link>http://www.enewman.co.uk/writing/hitching-up-my-skirts-but-trying-not-to-run-away/comment-page-1#comment-306</link>
		<dc:creator>Paisley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 21:28:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Emma

Congratulations on winning the writing contest.  Your story is truly magnificent.  It grabbed my attention straight away.  All the very best.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Paisley&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://paisleythoughts.blogspot.com/2009/05/i-want-to-do-right-thing.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I Want To Do The Right Thing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Emma</p>
<p>Congratulations on winning the writing contest.  Your story is truly magnificent.  It grabbed my attention straight away.  All the very best.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Paisley&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://paisleythoughts.blogspot.com/2009/05/i-want-to-do-right-thing.html" rel="nofollow">I Want To Do The Right Thing</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Joanna Young</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joanna Young</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 20:28:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brilliant! Great story :-) Well done.  Don&#039;t be afraid.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Joanna Young&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ConfidentWriting/~3/g0dROw5QpQQ/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Stick-To-It-Iveness: Guest Post by Lillie Ammann&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brilliant! Great story <img src='http://www.enewman.co.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Well done.  Don&#8217;t be afraid.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Joanna Young&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ConfidentWriting/~3/g0dROw5QpQQ/" rel="nofollow">Stick-To-It-Iveness: Guest Post by Lillie Ammann</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Caroline</title>
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		<dc:creator>Caroline</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 17:47:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You won! You WON!  I&#039;m so excited for you!  Blimey, that&#039;s a shot in the arm then, innit?

I agree with Jason. Getting what you want IS bloody scary. Much more than spiders. (And Jason - on the British Library card thing ... well, don&#039;t be too worried, that makes at least two of us.)

Such lovely news, Emma. I&#039;m almost drunk with &#039;helium glee&#039;!  I&#039;m off to open a bottle of elderflower champagne to celebrate.  (And pouring you a virtual glassful now ...)

Cheers!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You won! You WON!  I&#8217;m so excited for you!  Blimey, that&#8217;s a shot in the arm then, innit?</p>
<p>I agree with Jason. Getting what you want IS bloody scary. Much more than spiders. (And Jason &#8211; on the British Library card thing &#8230; well, don&#8217;t be too worried, that makes at least two of us.)</p>
<p>Such lovely news, Emma. I&#8217;m almost drunk with &#8216;helium glee&#8217;!  I&#8217;m off to open a bottle of elderflower champagne to celebrate.  (And pouring you a virtual glassful now &#8230;)</p>
<p>Cheers!</p>
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